November 30, 2011 1 Comment
Normally I write about some profound ancient wisdom that I have discovered and want everyone to know about but this blog is about why we do everything we do. The reason we live is to love. Who do we have to love? The answer is ourselves firstly and fore mostly, then our wonderful friends and family, the planet, its beings and probably life itself.
That’s not the reason for this blog. The inspiration is that a number of readers are desperately trying to find love – the perfect partner.
Maybe there isn’t just one…maybe more, maybe each love comes with it’s own used by date, which maybe one night, a year or a lifetime. Don’t turn off the options or you will never find love. Some of the most bitter people I have met and coached say things like: ‘He has to be between 32 and 35, millionaire, brown hair, tall, good looking and not have children. They find all the things they are looking for and then come out with, Oh but he’s too committed to his career …it will never work.
Relax and let flow take you. Stop fighting the damn flow.
In 2006 I did Dave Rogers AUM Program. In the CD set he talks about the system he used to manifest Chiharu his wife. I loved the system but didn’t use it. I didn’t want a relationship. In 2010 Glen Levy and I were working on the gold coast in Australia and he used a very similar system, whereby he manifested Mel his girlfriend in 30 minutes. (Yes …30 minutes) I did the exercise, thought it was profound and still realized I din’t want a relationship.
This September I was in Chile and one day I just decided… that’s it, it’s been 6 years… I am ready to find the perfect person. I remembered the exercise that Glen did and the girl I manifested in the vision. October 3 (just two weeks after I thought through the process and did it again) my Facebook pings with a request from an Angel. Two weeks later and I meet her and she is the exact girl I envisioned. … 100% exactly. OK it took a month from the energizing it to us being in a relationship. The beautiful thing is from the first minute we both knew… not just me…both of us.
So here is the exercise:
- Meditate into an Alpha state
- Bring in the perfect partner
- Study them from all angles
- Talk to them, listen to their voice and accent
- Touch them, smell them and taste them (this part can get pretty erotic folks… be prepared)
- Intuite where they are – what they do – their quirky ways
- Tell them ‘See you in the physical soon’ and relax
The bottom line is you have to let go of the outcome. You have to be so comfortable in your own energy that their energy is attracted in. The universe will find a way of getting you both together. But if you are pensive, waiting, grumpy, low self esteemed, the universe won’t deliver – why should it. That relationship is potentially not balanced energetically.
Most of all, play with this exercise…its fun
Lastly, take off all your clothes – stand in front of a mirror and be in love with yourself. Regardless of who you are or what you look like…you are perfection… rejoice in you and the perfect person will find you.